SPECTACULAR SEX MOVES HE'LL NEVER FORGET--7 New Questions with Dr. Sonia Borg

I am honored to be interviewed by legendary sex writer, Susan Crain Bakos a.k.a. Aunt Sue about my new book Spectacular Sex Moves He'll Never Forget. Click on the link and read all about it. xoxo Dr. Sonia

http://sexyprime.typepad.com/sexyprime/2011/01/spectacular-sex-moves-hell-never-forget-7-new-questions-with-dr-sonia-borg.html

Naked Conversations

Come take off your clothes and lie here with me naked. Hold me tight. Press your bare chest against mine. Lay on top of me and let me feel you.

Naked without clothes, we are more alike than different, both of us with needs and feelings.

Naked without shields; I thought my shield would protect me from being hurt, but all it really kept me from was living my life fully and entirely. It kept me from sharing my open heart, the real me. It kept me from you.

Naked without time, we are in the moment. Let’s let go of control and our need to be right. Let’s flow and create a new experience that connects us.

Naked without the voice of reason, we are vulnerable with open hearts. Do you hear our hearts beating? They synched up and now the loudest sound in the room. Let this be our song, our guide. What does your heart say?

Most often people loose desire with their partner because of unresolved issues, not because they lost functionality. On the surface, it may appear that emotions or how we feel about the other person and ourselves has nothing to do with sex, but it has EVERYTHING to do with how we feel about the sex we are having.

As humans we follow patterns: cognitive, emotional, and physical. These patterns serve us in many ways and help us predict and make sense of the world around us. However, it doesn’t serve us when it limits our growth and we use the same pattern of conflict resolution over and over that never ever really worked in the first place.

Naked conversations is something I started with a lover and now offer to clients. Simply being Naked somehow helps people get down to what is important at a core level, be vulnerable, be honest and be real. And it is playfully fun. It has transformed the way I have important discussions. Please note that the above are not steps. There are no steps. It is just one woman’s account of the process.

If you’ve read any of my books, you will know that I share some courageous and outrageous ideas for fun and sexy adventures. I wholeheartedly believe that on the adventure, you will discover some things about yourself and your lover that you never, ever expected and experience a freedom that will expand your repertoire and the container of what is possible between you.

The same is true with resolving conflict. You can choose a different way.

Sexual Positions Survey

The idea of "great sex" means different things to different people. As a Sexologist, it is my objective (and pleasure) to learn about what real people do sexually and how they feel about it.

As a writer, I enjoy reflecting this message in a sex positive way, incorporating the capacities and possibilities so we can all have the best sex of our lives.

Please join me in helping to create a great book. The information you share will (anonymously) be a part of a sexuality book to be published in March 2011.

Your contribution will help people to better understand each other, experience adventure, fun, communication, and connection with their lovers through sexual positions.

Your responses are completely anonymous and no one, not even myself, knows who responded to the survey. However, if you would like to be recognized in the acknowledgments, please send me an email to Dr.Sonia@TheHappyEndingsCompany.com

Again, my sincere thanks.

Much love and all the best to a healthy and happy sexuality,

Dr. Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H., M.A.

Certified as a Clinical Sexologist by the

American College of Sexologists

Survey For Men to Take

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=KCtisbUCcOi_2bq_2bB89t_2f6Rw_3d_3d

Survey For Women to Take

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